How Gaming Addiction And Social Media Affecting Kids These Days And Hampering Their Growth?

While there is another case of a child who committed suicide because his mobile phone was taken away from him.

The brain is actively developing and processing new information in the first 5 years of life. At this age, children require a lot of stimulation.
The brain is actively developing and processing new information in the first 5 years of life. At this age, children require a lot of stimulation.

By: Dr Vaidehi Dande, Child Specialist and Neonatologist, Symbiosis Hospital, Dadar.

Parenting in current era comes with its own challenges, and the pandemic has made this challenge even tougher. ‘Staying online’ became a necessity for the parents due to their work commitments and for children to enable them to pursue academic activities. However, what started as a necessity for kids did not take time to turn into a habit and in extreme cases addiction. The thin line between use and misuse became quickly blurred giving birth to a new generation of computer savvy, socially awkward and internet addicted kids. And the effect that this is having on kids has long term implications. It is taking a toll on social, mental, and physical well-being of kids. Recently there was news of a child being so obsessed with video games that to get his way, he shot his mother dead.

While there is another case of a child who committed suicide because his mobile phone was taken away from him. Such extreme cases are but a tip of the iceberg! Many problems are very subtle and non-quantifiable. Being glued to the screen day in and day out reduces opportunities of contact with the society and when such kids are faced with people they are overwhelmed and do not know how to react and respond. When they are with their gadgets, they are in their comfort zone and due to the new age parenting, children are not able to cope with the stress when they are out of this zone. Besides, these games are self-absorbing and also provide a lot of gratification in form of levels and medals, so children keep going back to those again and again. It leads to obsession about games and self-regulation is lost. Children fail to think beyond the animated world and at times it replaces reality for them resulting in familial disharmony.

The brain is actively developing and processing new information in the first 5 years of life. At this age, children require a lot of stimulation. This commonly happens when they hear others speaking, listen to stories and songs, engage in free play, imaginative play and have multitude sensorial experiences by playing outdoors. If these precious years are spent glued to the screen, brain development is hampered, and children start displaying adverse behaviors like irritability and hyperactivity and at times autistic personality. Prolonged screen time also reduces the physical activity and facilitates unhealthy eating habits resulting in health problems like overweight. Childhood obesity is a new pandemic for the present generation largely contributed by lack of physical exercise and screen addiction. Childhood obesity is a forerunner of lifestyle diseases like hypertension, diabetes, polycystic ovarian disease, and dyslipidemia. In addition to this, excessive screen viewing results in eye strain and weak eyesight. It also results in multiple nutrient deficiencies most commonly hypoviaminosis D.

So, what is the solution? There is no single answer for this neither is there any magic bullet for permanently solution. Children need to know their limitations and should learn self-regulation. Screen time should be restricted to 2 hours every day. Playing video games or watching TV should not be the only source of entertainment. They should be engaged in structured and unstructured physical activity daily. They should be encouraged to have friends and interact with them in person. Best way to ensure is by setting a good precedence. Parents should restrict their own screen times and should not offer children TV or video games to get their own free time. Parents and children should avoid screen at least 1 hour before bedtime and recreational use of television in bedroom.

One should be vigilant and identify early signs of screen addiction like loss of interest in other activities, thoughts pre-occupied with virtual subjects, displaying behaviors like lying to watch screen and familial discordant due to it. It is definitely a difficult task in current time and age to keep a child away from screen and requires a lot of determination from the parents, but it is not impossible and is really the need of the hour.

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